Be Strong In The Hardest Time !!

Be You - Hold Yourself !!

God has never promised us the smooth roads to our destination, but he has promised to be with us in our hard times. We all go through tough times, hardships, broken hearts and grudges. We all have enemies that never turn into friends, we all have friends whom we cannot always trust, we have family to support us but yet the misunderstandings do occur, we have unconditional love of our children but yet generation gap and some hard decision do take over. There are lots and lots of problems in life of each and every one of us. We all face those time when we feel like giving up, we may become discouraged and don’t feel like continuing to fight the battles of life.

Many a times we may feel like we are on a treadmill running with everything we have and getting nowhere. Life can sometime become stale and boring, pointless. Sometimes we may feel as if we can’t muster enough energy to continue life’s journey. There comes that phase of life to each one of us where we feel that troubles and trials are knocking us down. There is no way we can keep the hardship out of our lives, no matter how hard we try but somehow it always manages to find a way in.

Someone somewhere has given us a hope by creating morning after every night, hope after every destruction and eyes to see that there is someone in the world that is living even more painful life than yours. Be gratified that you have your hands, legs, eyes, ears and many as such things which are more important in your life than anything else. Jobs, business, materialistic things and luxury all comes and goes, but it does not bring much of happiness. Love, now hardly exist in the world full of selfishness and people with lies, but even if you find a true love it’s not going to make you happy for good. Family & friends are surely a great support and do stand with you in times of need, but no one is going to stay with you forever. Your kids were not with you when you were born, your parents would possibly not be with you when you die, your friends change with age, sometimes because of their life, change of city or job any circumstances. In this fast moving world you won’t find a single friend with whom you grew up, to stay with you till the end of the time.

Today, I am not explaining it to you all the importance and significance of things, friends, family, status or anything else. But today I am talking to myself and making me understand that nothing is forever and so wasting your tears on the all that is just a mistake. Never give up, never be afraid to be alone or left out, it’s all a part of the life and you yourself are the heart of your own life.

Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move forward. And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force us to. When time is tough remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose, move on from what hurt you, but never forget the lesson it taught you. Just because you are struggling or facing a hard time, doesn’t mean you are failing. Stay patient and stay positive, everything is going to come to an end, even the pain. May be not immediately but eventually.

Every time it rains, it stops raining.  Every time you get hurt, you heal.  After darkness there is always light – you are reminded of this every morning, but still you often forget, and instead choose to believe that the night will last forever.  It won’t.  Nothing lasts forever.

So if things are good right now, enjoy it.  It won’t last forever.  If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t last forever either.  Just because life isn’t easy at the moment, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh.  Just because something is bothering you, doesn’t mean you can’t smile.  Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending.  You get a second chance, every second.  You just have to take it and make the best of it.

Don’t ever be ashamed of the scars life has left you with.  A scar means the hurt is over and the wound is closed.  It means you conquered the pain, learned a lesson, grew stronger, and moved forward.  A scar is the tattoo of a triumph to be proud of.  Don’t allow your scars to hold you hostage.  Don’t allow them to make you live your life in fear.  You can’t make the scars in your life disappear, but you can change the way you see them.  You can start seeing your scars as a sign of strength and not pain.

Today I sincerely hope that what I wrote motivated you and myself too. I hope I will have a better view of troubles henceforth and I will read this article whenever I feel down.